On the road again

FINALLY! The medicine finally arrived on the morning of Dec. 18th and Marlene has taken it for two days. Tomorrow morning we will leave for Bethesda. Marlene will have blood work Fri. morning and a MRI in the afternoon. We should be able to head back toward Gate City Friday afternoon. We ask for your prayers as we begin this phase of our journey. We know God is with us on this journey and our prayer is His name will be glorified by the results. During this special season remember (even in Georgia,Patricia)God is good........and all the time........ In his love, M & R

Bethesda

After spending the day traveling Monday, Marlene has spent most of the day at NIH having tests(EKG, Blood work, PET scan). We will see the doctors tomorrow and find out what our agenda will be. We are anxious to get started. We will probably travel back to Va. tomorrow afternoon. Marlene feels pretty well(we did find a mall)and we went shopping for a while this afternoon. Please continue to pray for us as we start this trial. May God richly bless and remember even in North Carolina (Kay) God is good.........and all the time......... Marlene & Roger

Starting Treatment

We will travel to Bethesda on Monday Dec. 10th and report to NIH on Tues. morning. Marlene will have blood work and a PET scan and some other tests. We will see the doctors on Wed. at 12 o'clock and then we will travel back home. Marlene will begin taking the medicine on the 14thof Dec. We will travel back to NIH on the 18th for an MRI. Please keep us in your prayers as we travel on God's journey. May God richly bless and remember even in Alabama Martha Nell God is good.......and all the time....... Marlene & Roger

"ACCEPTED"

After spending three days at NIH last week, Marlene was accepted into a clinical trial. Hopefully everything will snap into place and we will be back on the road thursday. After having an MRI on Friday, she would have the first treatment. The treatments are a pill that is taken once a day, but another MRI is required 48-96 hours after the first pill is taken. Once that is done we can probably start home sonetime on Monday. Please pray with us that everything comes together and we can start as soon as possible. Marlene feels well and was able to go to the Christmas contata this evening. Thank you for constant prayers and support. May God richly bless you during this special season. Rem. GOD IS GOOD.........AND ALL THE TIME.... Marlene & Roger

On the road again

Sorry to have been away for so long, but we had a problem with the blog. For the past month we have been battling the insurance company. All of our appeals have been turned down due to the fact that Avastin is still considered an experimental drug. HOWEVER, We are leaving in the morning for Bethesda Maryland for an evaluation at the National Institute of Health. If we are accepted Marlene will be placed in an Avastin clinical trial. As one door closes God opens another one. Praise His blessed name! Please pray for us as we began this part of our journey and that we will be accepted in this clinical trial. Rem. GOD IS GOOD.........AND ALL THE TIME...........May God richly bless you all. Marlene & Roger

Catching up

Not sure what happens with time.....it is a little slow at the present, but the week was busy. I pray that everything will continue to move in the direction of treatment insurance approvels and I am trying very hard to accept the timing and know that treatment will come. We are getting ready for the big Thanksgiving trip to New York. Patti & Laura will return again this year, taking Luke & Linley. I am sure that they will have a wonderful time.....as usual we have many activits lined up. It has been 1 year this Thanksgiving since I had the first symptom of flashing lights and problems with my vision. I continue to wait for possiblities of improvement in the vision and be thankful that there has not been a lot of worsening changes. Will let everyone know when we hear more info on the insurance.....and treatment. Remember that God Loves you, and He is Good......All the Time. Marlene & Roger

Touching base

Adding another note today.....we are ecouraged, feel that there has been positive activity in the appeal process....so wanted to let you know. Will be a couple of days or so but there is things are moving and Roger and I are both very hopeful and very grate full for the help and prayers that we have had. We continue to remember that God is truly good and we are trully gratefull.....all the time! I'll keep you updated. Marlene (I am seeing a little better to day.....yepee but probably have many mispelled words..so will leave out most every thing til Roger returns.)

Trials continue

Touching base tonight to let you know the battle continues. We had a denial from the insurance co on Friday. Gearing up for the next appeal......with Anthem . Please pray that thia appeal is approved .God contiues to have a plan for my life. I am having tonight some vision problems tonight so I will not write much. Please remember that God Loves you.......and so do we......God is good.........all the time. Marlene & Roger

Oct. 31

Just a quick note to all this morning. No word yet on the insurance, so keep that little matter on your prayer list today! I am actually feeling much better off of the medicatin (I am not really surprised, actually feel better than I have felt in a few weeks. Contine to have difficulty with the vision, but no worse than it has been for a while, yeah. I am going to look at possibility of getting stronger contacts.......never know if that will help or not, but want hurt. I have waited, not knowing for sure what was going to happen with the medication......but will just forge ahead!) After I lost my reading glasses for over a day.......I got a little desperate and decided it was time to act! I did find the glasses finally, just one of those curious things that make me laugh now, but not at the time.

Although I do not do hallowen, I do candy, cookies and birthday's.....and we are having several celerations....Roger's sister will be 80 tomorrow and we celebrate with her.....she wanted a party at the Senior Center....where she still works! Theresa......my little sister is older than she is suppose to be (for me)....but still able to keep up with the teenages! Nov. is a party month for our family....so you will be hearing more.

Love to all. Thanks for your prayers and continued support. Remember that God is Good.......All the Time and All the time...... God is God.....every day. Marlene

Oct. 31

Trials

and possibly tribulations? :) Wanted to touch base with everyone who is still hanging in there with me on the Blog. I trully do appreciate you continue to be there for me. Every day is one day at a time and many days the energy level is low. The past month I partcipated in a clinical trial, however improvement was not shown and the Dr. pulled me out of it. I was very glad, because I suspect part of the se may have been from them......I don't mind side effects if they are helpful, but not crazy about them otherwise.

We are persuing the treatment that has been recommended as the best illness, from the beginning but it is not FDA approved so I have not been able to get it. We are both trusing that the treatment, the timeing and the results will be approved by the insurance......though it has been turned down x3. I ask all of you prayer warriars to please keep us in your prayers as we try again to get approval and for this treatment combination to be a be effective.

Thank you for your support.......we continue to be awed by God goodness and His mercy. WE know his timing is perfect and He his good.....All the time. Marlene

Trials

Oct 23

Just a quick note to let you know we are headed back to C'ville today. Looking foward to seeing the Dr, as seem to be having a few SE that I hope to find some solutions for......we will see. The allergies are better though.....hippee.....and I sincerely hope that all of you are feeling better too. We did have a little rain yesterday and it looks like maybe some more today. It is so strange that on the 23rd of Oct it is so warm and pleasant, and I wish you could see Roger's flowers, they are georgeous!! I would keep them all, if I could figure out how to do it, buut especially the begonias.....beautiful. We will return on Wed, and I will send you a note by the weekend. Care to all of you who are traveling also......O & Theresa and Maria esp.. Remember that God truly is Good.......every day, All the time!!!! Take care. Love, Marlene and Roger

t'is the season

for allergies to drive many of us crazy! They have simply knocked me out for a few days. I understand several of you have also had problems. I really hope you are all feeling much better soon. Try to drink plenty of water.....and rest, except that I am really ready to stop resting :) Since I stopped the antihistiminges and started the antibiotic, I am feeling better and hope to be even better tomorrow. Everyone take care of yourselves, and I will write more this weekend.....send me a note if you get a chance. I am a little behind in e-mail......but I promise to catch up.
Remember, God is Good.....All the time......and he cares about even the allergies! Love to all.....Marlene

Trips

Greetings to all this weekend. Wanted to let you know that I did make the 2 planned trips for the week. Thanks to my friend Carol, I was able to go to Marion to the District office and visit with staff. I was so glad to see everyone and hope to see others in the near future. I have a "plan" to get around to see everyone soon! It was even great to talk about Flu vaccine for a little while.....HONEST. We made a stop in Wash. Co. I was very sorry not to see everyone, but hope to be back in the area very soon.. Plans for a short trip to Bristol next, but will probably be a couple of weeks. Unfortunately my stamina and energy goes pretty fast.....but it is ok, I am biding my time and perservering!!

My other road trip was on Saturday, to Laura's in Roanoke. Patti and I went to the Vinton War Memorial Gala Extravaganza (Ribbon Cutting ceramony and ball). I was so very excited to be able to attend with both my daughters and it was so wonderful to see all of Laura's work come together so beautifully. (and to meet everyone and hear the wonderful compliments for her work) It was truly a sepectacular event, very successful!! Needless to say we were proud of her and as I said, I was go very very glad, and thankful to be able to attend. I actually did very well and enjoyed it such that I stated longer than I had planned..... the music and food were excellent. It was Great! It is always wonderful to spend time with my girls and we (and Eric)had a great time. If any of you are in the Vinton area, please drop by and see the ball room and renovations, they will be having open house for the next 2-3 weeks, but of course you can stop by any time..

We returned (a little late) last night so I will have 2 days of rest before my return to C'ville this week and I am keeping an open mind for other weeks activities!! I continue with my perserver and get up and move plans. Hoping that each of you are having a good weekend with family.

Thank you all for continuing to keep us lifted up. Praying for continued improvement with fatigue, tiredness and for ability to deal with the vision symptoms which continue to "come (pretty frequently) & go". Will be back in touch soon. Remembering that God is Goood........All the Time......and All the Time.....God is Good. Love, Marlene & Roger

Two trips

Oct 1

It is hard to believe that today is Oct. 1.

I received my first treatment of the new medicaiton on Wednesday. A fairly long day, but everything seemed to go well. Roger and I returned to Gate City later in the evening. Thursday I was totally wiped out, very tired, with no energy. Gradually the energey level has increased and yesterday I began walking 1-2 miles again. Fatique is the primary side effect so far. I will be thankful if that is the only big side effect I have. I am continuing to try to pace myself, resting frequently, but trying to stick to a plan of physical and mental activity.... moving forward.

My nursing school friend who lives in Maine flew in to spend a night and day with me this weekend, and it was wonderful to just visit with her!

Still hoping to see you soon......

Remember that God is still in control, and that He is Good..........All the time, and All the time, God is good. Love to all Marlene & Roger.

Journey---Charlottesvile, phase 2

Our return to Charlottesville this week began preperation for the next treatment phase. (More testing, repeat MRI etc). Everything went well, and since I have improved significantly in the past 3 weeks, I feel ready. We will return on Wed. morning for IV'/chemo etc. Assuming that all will go well, I will return home in the afternoon. I both look forward to beginning and have some apprehension over the effect of the chemo on my body, (these body changes are a little difficult) but am certain that I will be fine as I remember in whose hands I truly rest!! I am confident that this is the correct path to follow and so I will take one day & one treatment at a time. I remind myself that it is called a battle for a reason & I have learned it is not for whimps, thus I am glad I am not battling alone. Thank you for continuing to keep us in your thoughts and prayers. Will post a note at least 2x per week. Remember that God is Good.......All the time......He continues to bless us richly, every day!! Love, Roger & Marlene

Catching up

Greetings to all. It is amazing to me that time passes so quickly. I think I must move slowly, but I seem to stay busy much of the time, and still can't seem to get caught up with little tasks. I have been cooking a little, which is encouraging to me. I am very happy to report that we will be returning to C'ville on Wed. the 19th to see Dr., have more test (whew) prior to beginning the next round of chemo. Will only be there one day, but will return either the 24th or 26th to begin the treatment. Tx will be 1x q 2wks, so while we will travel every 2 wks, hopefully all will go well and we will only be in C'ville a few hours at a time. I am thinking positively regarding the SE etc. I am ready to begin again. This week I am holding my own, believing that I am getting stronger everyday. Walking 2 miles almost every day....TRYING to eat healthy......well try is the key word. Tomorrow is my Mother's 81'st Birthday. We celetrated with our (mine and her) favoraite chocolate cake.....boy it was good, and I baked it myself!! Everyone keep smiling.....and have a wonderful week.....I hope to see some of you that I haven't seen for a while!!!! Rememeber that God is not only Good all the time, but truly He is an Awsome God. Love you much. Marlene

Act as If.....& find the tempo

A short greeting to everyone tonight. I am plodding along. Taking to heart the feeling that I must get up and act as if healing is underway and to understand the need to pace myself to find a tempo of activity and rest. Very difficult for me. I am thankful that I can be a little more active, esp. if I rest pretty frequently. Still driving a little, I am so thankful! Had my 1st fly fishing lesson yesterday. I can "pop" it a little......I am not very good, and need a lot of practice, but it was fun and Eric and I had a good time in the yard. I am hoping we will have some rain over the next week or two and who knows I may even put the line in water! Will let you know when I hear the date to return to C'ville. Keep us in your prayers. Love to all, I am going to try to be a little more freq. with a note. A special thank you and much love to all of the people in Hiltons......attending Homecoming yesterday was such a wonderful blessing and it was so great to see all. Remember God is Good........All the time. Love Marlene & Roger

Walking along

Hi everyone. Sorry I am a little slow getting out any message for a couple of days. I have to plead a little "lazy", though in all honesty I was hoping to be able to update everyone with the treatment plan. I have communicated with C'ville, but nothing definite on travel etc. I have been encouraged this week that I continue am feeling better, excpt for the vision problems, I am really doing quite well. Not to scare any of you in the GC area, but I driven into Gate City a couple of days. This vision is strange, I can see and I pray that it will continue to improve. This week I have tried step out every day with a plan to move forward with my life. Sounds easy, but it takes a great deal of faith and one day at a time guideance. As always, I have wonderful family and friends support and I trust that we will continude to be guided by the One who leads us. Today Roger & I have been married 38 years. We will celebrate by going to Lukes football game! Remember: God is Good........All the time! Love Marlene & Roger

Happy Labor Day

Happy Labor day to everyone. Hope you all have an opportunity to get some rest from your labors and enjoy your friends and family!! I plan to watch a few butterflies, maybe prune a rose or 2, my roses look surprisingly good considering the weather and deer. I am happy that I continue to have enough energy to be fairly active this weekend, although rest is still frequent. As you all know, I do not like to be idle. I am again able to do a few things like cross stitch and sudoko, although I am very slow. Reading is a challenge, but I believe I can see a little improvement daily. I firmly believe that I must be focused with a vision to work toward. For several years I have been telling Eric that when "I had time" he would have to teach me to fly fish, seemed like such a relaxing sport. This weekend he brought me a beautiful Orvis fly rod and reel. Said ok, now you can learn to fly fish. It is a pink ribbon rod. He assures me that I can learn to use it. So I wanted to share my new vision, that I will be able to go fly fishing soon. It is my prayer that I will be able to focus and see the vision, the challenge and the answers for the future. Thanks to each of you for your continued support and encouragement as we continue on this journey. Have a wonderful Labor Day, be safe. Remember that God is Good........All the time. Love Marlene & Roger

Moving along

Hello everyone. Slowly, but surely I seem to have more energy. Was able to work around the house a little today.....who would ever have believed that I consider housework to be a priviledge! We walked 3 laps around the track, and it was a joy to be able to do that...in GC we see familiar folks and friends! Our summer landlord called last night to give us an update on the flowers in the yard (some of you may remember that Roger planted a few "extra" flowers while we were there, including in the sand box.) He said everything looked really good which of course was nice to hear. The flowers look good in GC also, esp. the ones that attract the beautiful butterflies.......take time for the small things, and remember that God is Good......All the Time. We love you. Roger and Marlene

Sunday Night

Greetings to everyone. I am so very glad to be able to write a few notes myself tonight. I want to thank each of you for your continued thoughts and prayers over the past 3 difficult weeks. I want you to know that I am improving, slowly each day and will be moving into the next treatment phase very soon. The computer is still challenging for me so I will not stay on line long. Wanted you all to know I have improved. I am fighting hard. I was able to go briefly to Linley's soccer game, visit my Mother, and to Luke's football game yesterday. Today I was very excited to go to Church, it was wonderful to see everyone! Guess what, I am really tired tonight! Will try to send out an update frequently. Thanks again for your love and encouragement. It is such a blessing to me and to my family. Remember: God is Good......All the Time......... Love you much, Marlene & Roger

Thursday Evening

Hello Everyone,
Dad asked me to do a quick post tonight and give a quick update. Mom is doing well today - the doctor has increased some of her medicine, and it seems to be making a dramatic difference. She is thinking and speaking a little quicker, and her sense of humor is still in tact. Eric and I have just gotten into town, and I am relieved to see her with the little twinkle in her eye! Mom just asked me what I am doing and when I said I was 'Blogging' she asked me to send each and everyone one of you a big hug! Although she has been out of touch with many of you, she still thinks of you daily. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers - we will be making big decisions in the upcoming days and weeks. We trust in the Lord that He will guide us through this leg of the journey. After all, God is good... and all of the time...
God bless you all,
Love,
Laura - #2

P.S. Patti, I just want to point out that I am beating you in the number of postings!

Wed. Aug. 22

We arrived back home from C'ville late Tuesday evening. Marlene made the trip without too much difficulty. Her MRI results show she will need some more treatment. We ask that you continue to pray that God will work in a mighty way for us during this time and that his Will be done. Thank you for your love and may God bless. Rem. God is good.......and all the time....... In His love M & R

Sun. Aug 19th

Sorry to have been away so long, but it has been a slow week. Marlene continues to have a low energy level. Her appetite is pretty good, but everthing still tastes bad. However, her spirits are high and she refuses to sit still for very long. Today she had a couple of battles with grandson Jack. We will travel to C'ville tomorrow afternoon. She has a MRI and two doctor visits Tuesday morning. Please keep us in your prayers as we go thru this part of our journey. May God bless and rem. God is good......and all the time....... In His love, M & R

Wed. Aug 15th

Marlene continues to grow a little stronger each day. Her appetite has improved and she has not been troubled by nausea. Her vision has not gotten any better than it was and she is not able to read for long periods of time. She has been staying up most of the day and washed and dryed clothes today. Tomorrow M has a treatment at the local hospital. This treatment is only done once a month so it is easier to get it done locally. Thank you so much for your Prayers and all the loving kindness that has been shown to us. Rem. God is good.......and all the time......In His Love M & R

Monday Evening

Marlene continues to have the weakies. However, she seems to get a little stronger each day. We are having a tough time finding foods that taste good to her. It seems everthing tastes like a metal can. If anyone has any suggestions, I would welcome them. God is working in our lives and we thank Him every day for his blessings that he is bestowing on us. Tell someone you love them today and remember God is good......and all the time...... In His love, M & R

Weekend Update

Hello to everyone who continues to follow our journey through this blog. Mom and Dad asked me to post a quick update on how we are progressing this week. The first half of this week was tougher than we had anticipated - as Dad posted earlier, Mom has been dealing with some of the after affects of her treatments. But today was a good day - although her energy level is still quite low, she was able to sit outside with Patti and I today and break a few beans. It was wonderful to just sit and enjoy the pleasant breeze, but Patti and I suspect Mom was really supervising our Bean-Breaking Skills!

Please continue to keep our family in your thoughts and prayers as we continue the battle - the Charlottesville doctor's office called on Friday and moved up the evaluation appointment by a week, so Mom and Dad will travel to Charlottesville for an overnight trip on August 21.

We are so grateful to you all and do not have to look very hard to know that God is good...All of the time. God bless you all,
Laura - #2

Thursday Evening

Marlene has continued to feel weak and tired today. She says she is so tired that she can't even feel sorry for herself. She has eaten better today and has been out of bed several times. The pill that she is taking for nausea seems to be working, because she has not thrown up today. Please continue to pray that God will work in a mighty way and his will be done in our lives. Thank you so much for the love and support you have given us. May God bless and rem. God is good......and all the time..... In His love, Marlene & Roger

August 6 '07

Marlene and I arrived back in Gate City thursday evening. It certainly feels good to be home. Marlene was able to visit with her mother all day Friday and friends came by on saturday. Sunday morning her energy level was very low and she did not feel well. Today she has been nauseated and weak. We ask you to continue to pray for us as we go into this part of our journey. Thank you so much for all the kindness you have shown to us. May God richly bless you all. Rem. GOD is good....and all the time..... In His Love, M & R

Gate City

We are home! It is great to be home on the mountain, watching Braves BB in our own den. Everyone stay safe and we will give you an update the first of the week. Have a great Friday & Weekend. Thanks for your continued prayers and support. God is Good. All the Time. Love. Roger and Marlene

Headed Home

Good morning! We are closing up this house and headed for Gate City! There is the psychological thinking that the tx are over and things will be back to normal soon. I realize this morning that the battle continues. Devotions this morning was on banishing fear, and as always, very timely! I am thankful for all of you friends who have traveled with us on this journy and am glad that the C'ville part has been completed successfully. I look forward to the day when I will be able to thank you personnally and let you know how much it means to have the on going support. It has changed my life forever! Thank you for your prayers. Please continue to remember us as we return home and at least Roger goes back to work, not that he has not been working hard here, but he did have time to work on his tan!! Will write a note tonight to let you know we are back in GC. Have a GREAT DAY! Remember: God is Good............ALL the Time. Love Marlene & Roger

July 31

Last chemo tx until Sept! Yeah! One more radiation tx! The itching is much improved and Dr. agreed that it was the Bactrim and it could be stopped. (a good thing for I was becoming rebellious) Roger and I went out to a small lake for a little while this afternoon. He fished for a little while and I did my 30 minute walk around the lake. It was very relaxing and the scenary was pretty. We have enjoyed the scenary around C'ville. The mountains are beautiful, however we are looking forward to moving back to the SW, where the mountains are bigger and also beautiful. We continue to be blessed by messages from you and we cherish you friendship and your prayers. We continue to the next step of the journey. Thank you for your support. Remember, God is Good.......All the Time. Love you, Roger & Marlene

July 30 '07

Hello to everyone. Hope you had a good weekend and a good Monday. We are in the final days of the C'ville part of this journey and we are so thankful that all of you have been with us and lightened our load. I have 2 more radiation tx. and 1 more chemo, then we have a 4 week break (yeah) before we return to C'ville for MRI & Dr. appts. and determine the next phase. I am truly looking forward to a break from tx and medication!! Have had a little problem with itching (palms, feet, head) ....I think it's the antibiotic they have had me take 3xw....hopefully, I can stop it this week. Everything else is going well, we are preparing to pack up and move. All the Pierson's are in Florida and spent the day at Epcot, having a great time. Sorry we are all missing Bible School. I know you guys are having a great time also!! Please continue to keep us in your prayers as we complete this phase and adjust to the upcoming changes. We continue to be blessed richly each day. Remember: God is Good.......All the Time. Love, Marlene & Roger

Weekend

This will be our last weekend in C'ville, at least for a while. Today we visited the peach orchard to have fresh fruit, may have to go back as we head for SWVA. Nothing like fresh peaches. We have had a good day. I am feeling pretty good. Not much energy, but otherwise ok. Thanks to all of you who continue to lift us up with your calls, cards, letters, pictures, e-mails and funny messages! Several of our family members are traveling so please remember them for safe travel mercies this weekend. Roger and I may take a break, so if you miss the blog, we will be back by Monday! Love to all. Remember: God is Good...........All the time. Roger & Marlene

Four To Go

We have had another very good day in C'ville. Our appointments have been in the afternoon this week, so we have met several new people. M continues to do well. We are trying to eat healthy fruits and veggies, and exercise every day. We are both anxious to be back in Gate City. God continues to work in our lives in a mighty way. Please continue to pray for us as we prepare for the second stage of our journey. Rem. God is good......and all the time ....... In His love, M & R

Counting on one hand

As we get to less than a week before we return to Gate City, we are excited. Treatment continues to go well, and side effects are about the same. Although this is a very pleasant place to be for the time being, it is not home and we miss all of you. I am glad some of you have reminded Roger what color he should be wearing (ORANGE), he's been eyeing the hats at the UVA shop pretty seriously, so we need to return, at least to Hokie country! We also heard that the watermelons in Carters Valley are beginning to get ripe! (along with the tomatoes and beans :) Everyone have a great day and remember: God is Good.......All the Time. Love you, Roger & Marlene

Six to go

Changed treatment machines today. All went well. Dr. L says 6 more treatments, everything is looking good. I am excited. Thanks to Teresa's response to last night's blog, I sat down at the piano tonight (there is one at this house, though Charlie will confirm it is very out of tune). You may recall my visual loss has been in the right lower visual field and I could not see my right hand, the treble keys or the right side of the music, so I had not tried to play since the first week I was here. Guess what, I could see the music, and the treble keys and played several songs, as well as I usually do! There is still some visual problems, but definite improvement!! I am singing Joshua Fought the Battle of Jericho today, heard an instrumental on the way to treatment, reminded me of Cathy. I will be very glad to get home, I miss all you Music Masters!!
Must wish Edie a Happy Birthday!! Hope you had a great day.
Remember, God is Good........All the time. Roger & Marlene

Singing

I realized yesterday that I had forgotten to sing. Isn't it amazing when we feel a little low, how we forget the really important things. Roger and I were reminded of the importance of keeping joy in our heart and my favorite way is through music. I don't always sing out loud, but always have a song "in my head". Roger's favorite way is to whistle, and today I have heard the Andy Griffith theme off and on all day. (I may sing out loud tomorrow, for revenge :) Isaiah 26:3 says "The Lord will keep you in perfect peace if you keep your mind stayed on Him". Our thoughts determine our destiny. You can't think negative thoughts and expect a positive outcome. So everybody remember to think positive and sing or whistle. Things are pretty much status quo today. Counting down the treatments. Rem: God is good.......All the time. Love and happy music to all. Roger and Marlene

Sunday, July 22

Thanks to Laura for doing the blog last night. Those of you who know Laura will not be surprised that she arrived with a burst of energy (and a spider plant, but that is a story for another day) and suceeded in lifting my spirits. She ask me: "well Mom why do you think you would be the only person to not have side effects?" And of course she is right. I have been very blessed to only have a few, and I really am feeling OK. So I will not complain about my energy level or my hair loss. I am ready to start the last full week of treatments. (8 remaining) I am remembering that a thankful and joyful heart will dispell fears and anxiety which can drain energy. I have much to be thankful and joyful about, so I expect to sail through the remaining treatments. Thanks for your continued prayers and support! Rem.. God is Good.......All the Time. Love to all, Marlene & Roger

Weekend Visit

Mom has asked me to post tonight while she relaxes after our walk. Yes, the energy level is a little lower, but if you know my mother, you know she is nothing if not determined! As the treatments continue, and we really begin the countdown, I am constantly amazed at her beautiful strength, her quiet resolve, her steady faith, and her sense of humor! She is such an inspiration to us - and I guess I had better give Dad some credit too! He is doing a wonderful job taking good care of the patient (who has already admitted she is a much better nurse than patient!).

Eric and I are glad to get to visit with them again this weekend. We know that soon our visits will be back in Gate City, and believe me when I say that Mom and Dad will be glad to be home. Until then, our family is so grateful to everyone for the thoughts, prayers, cards, and the many other things that so many of you have done for our mother. We know the Lord is with us - through all of you. God is good...all the time. Love to you all,
Laura - #2

Energy

Anybody got any extra energy? For the second day, mine has been low. I may resort to Mt. Dew (not my favorite drink) but it seems to give Jack & Luke extra power when Papaw gives it to them. I suppose I should not complain. I was warned that the energy level would continue to drop, and it has. However, today I was able to cross stitch for the first time in a long time. Guess I will take that ability to see as a pretty good trade. I am really not complaining. Things are still going well. I was able to walk my mile this afternoon, thought Roger thought he might have to leave me once or twice. The weather was very pleasant so we enjoyed being out for a little while. Continued graditude for your loving support and concern. Remember:
God is Good..........All the Time. Roger & Marlene

Single digits

We completed treatment 21 today, and everything went ok. Marlene has had the weakies today and took the day off from shopping to rest. She has listened to a book on tape, and reclined on the couch all afternoon. I'm beginning to think she's becoming spoiled. On a serious note, thank all of you for the beautiful, inspirational cards. They are the highlight of our day. God has truly blessed us by providing so many friends who take the time to think of us. May God richly bless you all. God is good.......and all the time........ In His love M & R

Mid-Week

Hope everyone has had a good day. Laura and Eric came to visit today, which always makes me happy! I was also able to work on the computer for a while, I think there is improvement in my vision. Continue to have problems with fatigue, but pushing forward. Our hearts are very saddened tonight as we learned of the unexpected death of our friends, Pat & Ray's son, Jason. Please keep this family in your prayers. I pray that God will hold all of them in the palm of His hands providing consolation that only He can provide. Remembering that even in the most difficult circumstances God is Good......All the time. In Love, Marlene & Roger

July 17th

It was good to hear from many of you today. The calls, cards, e-mails and blog message's keep me laughing and lifted up. I have had a more energetic day today. Talked to Dr. L and he thinks my progress is good. Encouraged continued exercise and keep it at the status quo. 11 treatments to go! This afternoon we drove a few miles up the Skyline Drive into the Shenandoah Park. It was a pretty day for a drive and we enjoyed the scenery, animals and wild flora! The rain held off until tonight. Hope you all are getting some also. Understand the garden at Mother's is still dry. Happy Birthday to Rosie and Anna! Hope you gals had a great day with lots of cake and ice cream! God continues to bless daily, and we see answers to prayers, big and small. Yes He is good...........All the Time.........Love, Marlene & Roger

Moving on

We know we are moving forward but today seemed like we are moving with a herd of turtles :) Had thunderstorms all afternoon and had to stay inside. From phone reports, much of the State has had some rain, and that is a good thing. Grass is growing and vegetables are getting ripe. Happy Birthday to Gary today! Won't revel his age, but he is almost as old as me! Treatment still going well, gotta early schedule in am (I like the early schedule). Today's message from Joel Olsteen was especially timely for me and I will share a little of it: Banish Bad Thoughts. "The Lord will keep you in perfect peace if you keep your mind stayed on Him"(Isaiah 26:3) (Also reference to Prov 23:7) Your thoughts determine your destiny. You can't think negative thoughts and expect a positive outcome.
Have a good day.... Rem: God is Good.........All the Time..........Love you Marlene & Roger

Grandchildren, etc

Grandchildren are a blessing and we have enjoyed having Luke, Linley & Jack visit this weekend (and Patti & Otis) They are safely back in Church Hill tonight and we miss them. I am thankful for the energy to "battle" several times with Jack, and for the vision to play Uno, even though I didn't win. A friend told me that we "gain energy" from our grandchildren, and I suspect that is true. I find that putting forth an extra effort can energize. Seems to work when I make myself take a 30 min walk also. Well, if the doctor makes no change in current orders, I have 6 more tx on the machine I am on now, then change to another machine for the last 7 txs! Things are going pretty well, I have a collection of hats and scarfs....still have my hair in front and on top, but it is scarce everywhere else.....may have to have that wig afterall. FORTUNATELY, I am NOT sick at my stomach, but Mitzi, Roger wants to go out and get some kraut juice, sorry but I cannot drink that, he can have it all! I will stick with the goji!! Hopefully all you travelers for last week have returned safely home. Mark & Andrew were in South Dakota last night, they are on a 2 week camping/hiking trip, destination Montana. Keeping all this weeks travelers in our prayers for safety, rest & relaxation. We begin another week of the journey. Remember, God is Good.........All the time-------
Love to all, Marlene & Roger

Friday the 13th

A lot of people consider this day unlucky. Not me! The grandbabies are here for the weekend. There's no better way to spend time than with your family. Isn't God wonderful? He blesses us with so many good things. Praise his holy name. Marlene has had a good day. Her energy level is still good. She takes a couple of short naps each day and wakes up fully rested. Does't God work in mysterious ways? She has lost a little more hair, but she looks really good in a hat. My thanks to all of you for the calls, cards, and prayers that have been sent our way. May God richly bless you all. In His love. M & R God is good-----and all the time------

Counting down

We continue to count down the days. We are over half way! So far, so good. No major problems. We enjoyed delicious food and the company of one of our neighbors tonight. She wanted to know about Roger being a liberal. I do not think she was convinced that he fit the bill. She is a lovely neighbor, as we are discovering is the norm here on Old Farm Rd. Looking forward to the weekend and a little break from treatments. Hope all of you have a safe, relaxing and peaceful weekend. Love to all, God is Good.... All the Time..... Marlene & Roger

Friends

It is hard for me to follow Otis' blog last night, so I guess I will just say thanks to him and write my own note. Roger has fallen asleep early tonight, so I am alone. This will be a test, to see if I can type without leaving off letters and mispelling words, actually don't count misspelled words, for I never could spell! We have enjoyed visiting with friends from Gate City/Kingsport. Jim, Carol & Allen have lifted our spirits and made us smile and we are grateful. I am feeling pretty good. No new symptoms or side effects and I believe my vision has improved, at least slightyl. Yeah! Tiredness comes and goes, they tell me to expect that to increase a little, temporarily. My treatments have been later in the morning for a couple of days, so haven't seen the same folks in the waiting room. Thank you for continuing to keep them in your prayers, esp. Marie and my little teenager friend. Tomorrow is her last radiation treatment, but she still has more chemo to go through so my prayer is that she will tolerate it well and that it will do the job it is suppose to do. She has a lot of courage, and she and her mother are an inspiration to me. I continue to get as much exercise as I can.....it is an important part of my treatment plan and is written in the instructions, really. We are blessed to be in a wonderful residential neighborhood of walkers. Tonight we met a lovely grandmother, walking with her grandchildren. Her name is Diane and she invited us to go to church with her. For those Baptist and Methodist amoung you, both of our invitatioins to church have been from Presbyterians. Not to cause any of you any further worry about my newly liberalized husband, but we plan to visit the Presbyterians!! Until tomorrow, remember God is Good, all the time. Love you all. Marlene

Trip Photos

Marlene and Roger are entertaining guests tonight so I thought I would post a couple of pictures from Patti's and the kid's trip see Mimi and Papaw.

Here is Roger with the infamous electric lawnmower and some of the flowers he has planted. He is doing his part to save the environment. I think the college town is turning him into a liberal.

Here are Marlene and Roger hard at work on the blog. Note all of the cards along the windows. These are cards that Marlene and Roger have received from all of you people out there in blogland.

Author John Maxwell writes "In life, both faith and fear will arise within you and you choose which one will prevail. Someone once wrote,

Two natures beat within my breast,

The one is foul, the other blessed.

The one I love, the other I hate;

The one I feed will dominate."

So thanks for all your cards and letters they help feed Marlene and Roger's faith so that fear has no place in them.

Treatment 13

We are almost half way finished with the radiation treatments and Marlene continues to do well. She had her weekly visit with the doctor today. She has lost some hair in the areas where the radiation is being applied. However, she does have a ducktail behind which looks very cute(she does'nt think so, but her opinion does not count anyway). Her energy level is a little lower, but we just came in from walking a mile and it's hard to walk when the temperature is 88 degrees. We have met a lady named Marie that has the same type of tumor that Marlene has. When you lift Marlene and I up in prayer, please remember Marie. God continues to bless us each day. Sometimes our prayers are answered just as we pray them. ISNT GOD GREAT! We had a surprise visit from Charlie Lawson(church choir director)today. We spent the afternoon with him. Thanks Charlie, we love you. Again, thank all of you for the mail that you send us. We look forward each day for the time when the mailman arrives. May God richly bless you all. In His love. M & R God is -------And all the time--------

Grace

Good evening friends. Hoping each of you have had a good day. It was good to hear from several of you today. We have had a quiet day, "resting". The weather is hot and muggy here, so it wasn't hard to stay indoors, well maybe a little hard for Roger. A friend provided me with beauty products called Amazing Grace. Today was the perfect day to use the Grace Shampoo....feeling not so great about my hair lose the shampoo was great on my scalp sufficiently moisturizing. I am amazed at God's plans to providing for my (our) needs, even before we know we have a need. He reminded me with the shampoo that indeed His Grace is Sufficient for Me. (Anybody know that song?) We are ready to start another tx week. Praying for continued minimum side effects. Praising for improvement with visual symptoms. In Christ Love, Marlene & Roger ...........God is Good..............All the time...............

Scalped!!

Saturday Greetings! Roger says that I look like an Indian made an unsuccessful attempt to scalp me! But I still have more hair than he does! Pretty significant hair loss in the radiation area; I have always enjoyed wearing a hat. Now I have a great excuse.

We have had a good day. Laura and Eric joined us this afternoon and we went to see an outdoor opera production of 'The Sound of Music' at Ash Lawn (the historic home of James Monroe). It was a unique time in a beautiful setting. Even Roger and Eric enjoyed it, but they were skeptical when they first heard the word 'Opera'!

We are all very tired, but grateful for another good day. Remember, God is Good.....And all of the time......

We love you all, Marlene, Roger, Eric and Laura

Not quite 1/2 way

Greetings to all. Completed 12 radiation treatments today. We were in and out quickly this morning, and there were not many in the waiting room. I am beginning to lose a little hair in the radiation area, otherwise, doing pretty well. We enjoyed a quiet day and went for a long walk this evening. We also had a visit from our next door neighbor, who's husband (now deceased) was from Gate City, and they met when she was working at the Eastman in 1950. She is a lovely lady who is having some medical problems also. It truly is a small world. She invited us to go to church with her, and also advised us on the Methodist Churches near our house. God continues to bless us continuously and we rejoice. We wish for each of you a great weekend with your family. To those who are leaving on vacation....have a wonderful, safe, relaxing time. Remeber: God is Good--------And all the time--------- In His Love, Roger & Marlene

Quiet day

After a great 4th celebration with the kids, today has seemed unusually quiet. Everyone was "recovering" and Roger and I spent a little longer than usual at the hospital for therapy. That is valuable time for we have the priviledge of meeting and talking to the folks who are having the same kinds of problems as us and Roger says we are all in one big boat. I think that is a good analogy. It gives us an opportunity to share and Roger usually causes everyone to laugh, which as you know is the very best medicine. We are making new friends. That is a good thing. Please remember not only Roger and I, but the others in the small group in the waiting room between 9-11 in your prayers. We feel those prayers. Thank you for your continued kindness and love to our family. In His Love, Roger & Marlene

Happy 4th

Completed the 10th treatment today and saw the doctor. All is going well. He said he predicted I may loose a little hair by next week (radiation area), but he smiled then said prove me wrong. He is a very uplifting man. I continue to have a pretty good energy level most of the time and have managed to keep up with Jack, except when Papaw is "battling" with him. We wish for each of you a Happy and safe 4th as we celebrate the day (I won't have treatment on the 4th) with our children. Love you, Marlene and Roger Remembering God is Good.........and All the Time.............

Official Tourists

Hello to everyone from C'ville! Luke, Linley, Jack and I (Patti) arrived yesterday afternoon to chase away Papaw's boredom and make sure he is not able to nap for the next few days. Mimi has played nurse to the kids as they have managed to scrape, cut, and bruise themselves nonstop. I think she likes being the nurse rather than the patient!

This morning, Luke went with Mom to her treatment and saw the radiation machine. He reported that it was really cool, the people were really nice, and Papaw talks to everybody! After a quick lunch, we headed to Monticello and a special "kids tour" of the property. We had a great time and all agreed that the kids's tour was better than the regular tour. We learned a lot and especially enjoyed the vegetable garden, where Dad was glad to see that Scott County is not the only place with deer problems! We were official tourists and had a great time.

The house here in C'ville is perfect for Mom and Dad. Just more evidence of who is in charge of this journey! The front yard is equipped with a tree swing- much to the delight of the kids-and we enjoyed coffee on the outdoor patio in the back yard this morning. Mom is truly doing well; her energy is high and her attitude is awesome. Daddy is good too; let's just say this is the best yard on the street!

Thanks to all of you for your continued love and prayers for Mom and our family. I hope you don't mind my posting tonight--Mimi is busy. Besides, I can't be outdone by Laura (#2, the sequel, Aunt LaLa, LA...). Remember, God is good... all the time...

Love to all,
Patti

Nursing Notes

This jouney (or battle if you prefer) that Roger and I are on is holistic, Spirtual, Physical and Mental. It will come as no surprise to most of you that the physical part is the most difficult for me. Needless to say, I am not a good patient, and I do not like to discuss it. I would much, much rather be the nurse, checking your B/P, or helping with your symptoms or investigations. So many of you are helping me with the spiritual and mental journey (thanks for keeping me laughing) and I know that many of you really are "my nurses", so I thought I would break down this afernoon while I await the arrivel of Patti and my 3 wonderful grandchildren, and send you a nursing summary for the past 12 days.
June 20 -July 1, 2007 Completed 8 Radiation, 12 Chemo.
NO N,V, D. No Pain. Sl frontal HA, prob. allergy related. Taking Allegra and sudafed prn. Decadron 2xd, Zophran 1xd, 30 min b4 chemo. Cont. to have right lower field visual loss, best described by inability to see piano keys above middle C or computer keys to the right of k & m. Adjusts by turning head until visiual are clears. Energy level high in am, short rests 1-2 x as needed in afternoon. Walking 20-40 minutes 3-4x/wk, weather permitting. Skin clear, exept for redness with slight soreness at radiation site. No hair loss, so far. Soda and flouride for tx/prevention of mouth ulcers, (working well). High Fiber diet. Appetite fair. No weight change.
Drinking> 64oz h2o daily. 4 1/2 weeks to go!! Marlene

PS For all of the folks that don't know what this medical gibberish means. Marlene is well (she is still trying to tell me how to take care of her). She's a terrible patient, but I'll be persistant because God is on my side. Rem God is good -----and all the time God is good--------. In his love, Roger

Saturday, June 30

Hello everyone,
Mom asked me to go ahead and write a little note while she rests - we have just returned from an evening stroll to the UVA Rotunda which was a little further away than we thought! Mom has had a great day today and felt really good. We all went to the Farmer's Market in Downtown Charlottesville. As Dad would say, we saw a lot of local color! We bought some fresh produce and enjoyed a nice lunch. We returned to the house for an afternoon siesta, then ventured out a little later to check out some holiday sales! Eric and Dad went running around for a while - I am sure they found a river somewhere, but we all met back up for a delicious meal. It was simply amazing for us to see how many of you have sent cards and notes of support and well wishes. There are cards all over the house - with many more coming today! Our family thanks you all for your love and support. God has truly blessed us with such loving family and friends. Please remember: God is good.....and all of the time......!
Love,
Laura

P.S. Dad says to tell Mitzi that he thinks mom is hooked on goji juice!

June 28

Good evening friends. Roger and I have had a quiet and peaceful day today. Feeling pretty good and I have been staying out of the heat. Roger, of course is working on his tan :) We did get some rain this evening also, although not much. Just enough to cancel our walk but hopefully will cool the air.
Need to tell you a couple of things: 1. The phone at the house here in C'ville is out of order but should be fixed by tomorrow afternoon. 2. All mail should be addressed without Jeffry Legro's name in it (oops, my mistake). I'm sure the postman has realized our names by now with or without his name, but one card was forwarded to VT, he was in town and brought it by tonight. I will take this opportunity to say a thank you again for the cards, letters, notes, calls, e-mails, blog comments and prayers. I can never adequately express my graditude and thanks or tell you how very much it has meant to Roger and I to have your support at this challenging time. It truly holds us up. Rem: God is Good-------and all the time------------.
I must also tell you that my grandson, Luke is 10 years old today!! Happy Birthday Luke!!

Love to all, Roger and Marlene

Better Day

Well, I had planned to skip tonight'blog, but since Susan called my attention to the fact that yesterday was June & not May, I thought you deserved to know that Roger and I really aren't "loosing it." Had a really good day today. Did not realize how tired we were, until we felt much better today. Great visit from Pastor Steve, Jackie, and Bradley enroute home from Williamsburg. Praying that all of you are well. Love, Marlene & Roger

Tuesday May 26

Just a brief note tonight. Saw the doctor today, like some of you, he said "just 5 more weeks". I would say things are going pretty well. Little tiredness, nothing of great significance. I have always wanted to be able to take power naps, never could before, but now short naps energize me again at least for a short period. I think Roger will take over all the cooking here very soon, he doesn't like all the ways I can fix zucchini!! :)

Wanted to share with you the scripture reading for today, since my spirits were low after this weekend:

Psalms 94:18-19 " When I said, "my foot is slipping" your love, O Lord, supported me. When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul."

Peace has returned.
Have a great day, and may God Bless. Marlene & Roger

Week 2 Day 1

After traveling >800 miles over the weekend, God has delivered us safely back to Charlottesville. We were grateful that my treatment schedule allowed me to be gone from Friday afternoon until Monday afternoon and that we made the trip without difficulty. Thank you for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers and for providing comfort and provisions along the way. Treatment resumed this afternoon. I still have only minimal side effects but I do know that I am receiving treatment. I look at that as a good thing, since I am here to be treated and I can tell that my body is responding, that's what we want! Continue to keep us both close, we are tired and will communicate better as the week goes on.

Thank you for the cards, e-mails, calls, and blog messages. They have comforted us and we look forward to reading them each evening. Remember, God is Good-----All the time & All the time-----God is good. In His love, Roger and Marlene

Out of Town

Just wanted to let everyone know that Marlene and Roger had to leave Charlottesville because of the death of Marlene's uncle in Knoxville. They will return to Charlottesville on Monday afternoon to resume treatment. Please keep the family in your thoughts and prayers.


Otis

Day three of the journey

Thanks to each of you for your prayers and for being with us on this journey. Marlene has started taking the cemo pill and so far she has had no side effects. God continues to share his miracles with us each day. The treatment today lasted only 15 minutes and we were on our way. We had a visitor from GC today. Susan Herron came by to say hello and visit awhile. We continue to be amazed at the outpouring of love , it sustains us each day. We ask you to continue to pray that there will no side effects from the treatments. Have a good day and may God bless. Love you all. Marlene & Roger

Count Down has begun

Laura assured me that I should write a note tonight, that it would not be too boring. The treatments began today. Radiation was approx. 40 min. and they assured me if I could survive lying still that long, the rest of it will be a breeze, only around 10 min. I survived, without difficulty. A friend who recently had treatment with a mask told me to think of being wrapped in God's warm blanket, and that worked well for the time I was in it. Of course it is too soon to expect anything :) so Roger and I walked our 30 minutes tonight and I am going to take the chemo and go to bed! I will tell you all one thing to make you smile and make me proud. Tomorrow Linley is having 10 " of her beautiful blonde hair cut for "Locks of Love". She has let it grow for almost a year to be able to do that. Her Mimi is very proud of her! Have a great day and may God Bless each of you.

Love,
Roger & Marlene

Let the Treatments Begin!

Just a quick note, today was a "free" day, no appts. However I had a call from the SW around noon (she was not calling about the schedule and is a very sweet, helpful lady) but she thought it would be 7-10 days before treatments could begin, which was momentarily stressful.... however Roger said "don't worry, we know the whole thing is in God's hands" (where have we heard that before? :) within the hour I had a call from the scheduler in radiology and my first treatmen will be at 2:15 tomorrow, Wednesday June 20. I am ready. Let the Treatment Begin! Love to all and thank you for the wonderful, encouraging comments!! !!!! Marlene

June 18 Preparing...

Our appointment today was suppose to be an "assessment" by Dr. Larner, the radiologist who "would schedule another date for planning and making my mask". Or course we said we were "ready to go forward anytime, had relocated to Charlottesville" and they decided to try to schedule the mask to be made today. It was no surprise to us when the nurse returned smiling and said go get a cup of coffee, they will make it in 30 minutes. Now you may know I am a little claustraphobic, but God is good and I wasn't even afraid. I now have a "fencing mask" which they tell me will be mine to keep or destroy as I desired after my treatment is over. I am reminded of the Helment of Salvation, and as Laura will say, it will be a very visible part of the armor for this battle we have begun. We were encouraged by the two physicians that we saw. Dr. Larner told me I am in a small group of about 1 % of patients who have symptoms only with their vision. He commented/confirmed that my health is excellent (except for this not necessarily minor problem) and certainly that is a blessing for which I give thanks daily. After the mask was made I was suppose to meet again with Dr. Larner, however he was not available, (remember I wasn't suppose to have the mask made today!) so Dr. Read saw me. I was extremely glad to meet him, as he was the radiologist that treated my friend who highly recommended UVA to me. It was another blessing! So we are here, settling in, not sure exactly when the treatments will begin, as it takes a "few days" to get the mask ready etc. They will call me. I will provide another update after treatments begin. Love and continued thanks for the many prayers and expressions of love and concern! Marlene & Roger

We have arrived at our temporary "home" in Charlottesville. Laura gets an A + for home selection. We are in a quiet neighborhood with trees and birds, the house is nice and homey with a large sun room over looking a private patio and yard. We believe we will be comfortable here. (yes, Roger has a yard to mow, and possibly other things to do if he so desires). As you can see we are connected to the internet.

Our first appointment is at 8:30 in the morning and we will update you as events are forthcoming. Thanks to all for the calls, cards, gifts, and love. The Journey and the battle has begun. Marlene & Roger

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